Setup
Our main flower was sunflower, and the main colour was purple. Lee-Anne's favourite colour is yellow and mine is purple so it made for a good contrast. The sunflowers were in season, and they hold a bit of personal significance to us as well
Wedding favours were popcorn, made by Lee-Anne's mom
The wedding was held in Lee-Anne's parents backyard. I was skeptical that everything would fit. When I saw that a tent had been put up for the reception, effectively cutting space in half, I was even more skeptical, but everything worked out. My spatial awareness isn't the best and I would have completely overshot were I in charge
Getting those paper lanterns up was a real chore
This was a surprise for me and Lee-Anne. I didn't notice it until after the ceremony when I was directing someone to the bathroom, and it took Lee-Anne even longer
The Ceremony
Me, Duncan, and Mom walking down the aisle
Lee-Anne and her dad
The ceremony was held in a little park outside the backyard. Originally it was going to be in the un-tented half of the backyard, but Lee-Anne decided it was too hilly. So the day before the wedding it was decided to relocate to the park, and the arch was put up morning-of
It worked out well as it made everything more visible from the street that guests were coming from
A signature moment of the day, really glad the photographer caught it. During the ceremony I was sweating bullets. I don't know if it was nerves or the sun. It was an afternoon wedding and the ceremony was held at about peak sun exposure. I wanted to wipe my forehead but with all eyes on me I couldn't do it unnoticed. I'd have to let go of Lee-Anne's hand, and if I did, I didn't want to touch her with my sweaty hand after. I also didn't want to rub the sweat off on my clothes. Eventually I felt it was unignorable and not attending to it was more awkward than doing something about it
So I broke form and rubbed my head. Lee-Anne, having followed my thought process laughed and rubbed my head as well. Audience laughed and it acted as a break from tension and added some levity to the formality of the ceremony. For some reason, some people found it touching, and a few cried
Sealing it with a kiss
We had an earth-mixing ceremony. We took dirt from Lee-Anne grandma's farm and my grandparents place in Kenabeek and placed it at the base of this young tree, symbolizing the new union of the two family trees
Signing the marriage forms
Another kiss
The Reception
Memory table for people that couldn't make it. Among them was a close family friend that always imagined me getting married and coming to my wedding. For many years I told her I didn't see it happening, and I'd even met Lee-Anne and was planning on asking her out, but this family friend passed away before the first date
My granddad who is still with us but suffering from dementia. We visited him the next day
Grandparents on my father's side
A family friend on Lee-Anne's side who passed away unexpectedly near enough to the wedding that she was looking forward to coming
Lee-Anne's first niece who passed away shortly after she was born
Not on the table, but an uncle and aunt on Lee-Anne's side were unable to make it as one of them had a medical emergency, although they're alright now
The heart with the lace was our ring pillow. The three rings are our wedding bands and her engagement ring
This was our MC Trevor, a family friend on Lee-Anne's side and the husband of the family friend that recently passed
We had four people do speeches. First up was Lee-Anne's dad
My Grandpa Rob
Lee-Anne's friend and bridesmaid Meaghen
My brother Duncan
Me and Lee-Anne. We made a speech together to close them off. We didn't have a script but planned sections and took turns between them
More Atmosphere Shots
Instead of a cake we had a tart tower
Guest seating format. Each flower represented a table and each petal had someone's name
Guided By Photographer
Groups
Us, bridesmaids and best man
Lee-Anne and bridesmaids
Me and Duncan, my brother and best man
Us, Lee-Anne's parents and her grandma
Us with my grandparents
Us with my aunt and uncle on my father's side
Us with my mom and brother
Us with my coworkers, the WALES team
Hugs
Cats
My mom and brother adopted a couple of kittens from Lee-Anne's sister in law. Since they'd be in the same place for the wedding she brought them down for them to take home, and here my mom is showing them off to my coworkers
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